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Student Civility Recommended Reading List

Interested in learning more about civility? Check out the following list of books, TED talks and online resources!


Born for Love: Why Empathy is Essential-and Endangered by Maia Szalavitz and Bruce D. Perry, MD, PhD

Choosing Civility: The Twenty-Fives Rules of Considerate Conduct by P.M. Forni, PhD

Emotional Intelligence: Why it Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman, PhD

People Skills: How to Assert Yourself, Listen to Others, and Resolve Conflicts by Robert Bolton, PhD

The Civility Solution: What to Do When People Are Rude by P.M. Forni, PhD

The Lost Art of Listening: How Learning to Listen Can Improve Relationships by Michael Nichols, PhD

TED Talks

Civility by Shelby Scarbrough, TEDxNapaValley 2016

Civility and Citizenry by Diana Laufenberg, TEDxGrandForks 2014 

The Force of Civility by Diana Damron, TEDxWhitefish 2015 

Online Articles and Resources

Civility in America: An Annual Nationwide Survey published by Weber Shadwick

George Washington's Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation published by Foundations Magazine